{"id":2657,"date":"2025-06-25T15:14:58","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T13:14:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taigenesis.com\/?p=2657"},"modified":"2025-06-25T15:28:49","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T13:28:49","slug":"tai-lies-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taigenesis.com\/en\/tai-lies-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"TAI applied to lies in relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"
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My <\/span>name <\/span>is <\/span>Vincenzo <\/span>Zauner, <\/span>I <\/span>am <\/span>61 <\/span>years <\/span>old, <\/span>and <\/span>I <\/span>live <\/span>in <\/span>the <\/span>province <\/span>of <\/span>Vicenza. <\/span>I <\/span>am <\/span>a <\/span>management <\/span>consultant, <\/span>primarily <\/span>focused <\/span>on <\/span>training <\/span>in <\/span>soft <\/span>skills.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
I <\/span>have <\/span>always <\/span>been <\/span>passionate <\/span>about <\/span>personal <\/span>growth <\/span>techniques. <\/span>Combining <\/span>my <\/span>experiences <\/span>in <\/span>the <\/span>military <\/span>(I <\/span>served <\/span>as <\/span>an <\/span>army <\/span>officer <\/span>for <\/span>years), <\/span>I <\/span>have <\/span>continuously <\/span>sought <\/span>and <\/span>applied <\/span>methods <\/span>that <\/span>deliver <\/span>practical <\/span>and <\/span>measurable <\/span>results.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Among <\/span>the <\/span>many <\/span>techniques <\/span>I <\/span>have <\/span>explored <\/span>over <\/span>more <\/span>than <\/span>thirty <\/span>years <\/span>dedicated <\/span>to <\/span>helping <\/span>relationships, <\/span>I <\/span>have <\/span>selected <\/span>a <\/span>few <\/span>that <\/span>have <\/span>consistently <\/span>proven <\/span>effective <\/span>and <\/span>simple <\/span>to <\/span>apply.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Guided <\/span>by <\/span>my <\/span>motto, <\/span>\u201cI <\/span>cannot <\/span>guide <\/span>you <\/span>where <\/span>I <\/span>have <\/span>not <\/span>already <\/span>been <\/span>myself,\u201d <\/span>I <\/span>have <\/span>personally <\/span>tested <\/span>every <\/span>technique. <\/span>Beyond <\/span>how <\/span>fascinating <\/span>a <\/span>technique <\/span>might <\/span>seem, <\/span>my <\/span>goal <\/span>has <\/span>always <\/span>been <\/span>to <\/span>find <\/span>something <\/span>that <\/span>works <\/span>reliably, <\/span>applicable <\/span>in <\/span>real-life <\/span>cases <\/span>with <\/span>repeatable <\/span>effectiveness.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
EFT <\/span>(Emotional <\/span>Freedom <\/span>Techniques) <\/span>was <\/span>the <\/span>first <\/span>energy-based <\/span>technique <\/span>I <\/span>encountered, <\/span>which <\/span>I <\/span>learned <\/span>as <\/span>a <\/span>self-taught <\/span>practitioner. <\/span>I <\/span>applied <\/span>it <\/span>mainly <\/span>to <\/span>myself, <\/span>achieving <\/span>remarkable <\/span>results, <\/span>particularly <\/span>in <\/span>managing <\/span>anger <\/span>and <\/span>dismantling <\/span>deeply <\/span>limiting <\/span>beliefs.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Later, <\/span>I <\/span>approached <\/span>Rogersian <\/span>counseling <\/span>(life <\/span>counseling), <\/span>noticing <\/span>that <\/span>the <\/span>training <\/span>I <\/span>conducted <\/span>in <\/span>classrooms <\/span>often <\/span>clashed <\/span>with <\/span>deep-seated <\/span>emotional <\/span>blocks <\/span>that <\/span>only <\/span>targeted, <\/span>personalized <\/span>work <\/span>could <\/span>overcome. <\/span>After <\/span>three <\/span>years <\/span>of <\/span>study <\/span>and <\/span>practical <\/span>internships, <\/span>I <\/span>qualified <\/span>as <\/span>a <\/span>life <\/span>counselor.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Delving <\/span>deeper <\/span>and <\/span>using <\/span>EFT <\/span>in <\/span>a <\/span>complementary <\/span>way <\/span>proved <\/span>highly <\/span>effective: <\/span>through <\/span>counseling, <\/span>clients <\/span>connected <\/span>with <\/span>deep <\/span>emotional <\/span>blocks, <\/span>and <\/span>with <\/span>EFT, <\/span>they <\/span>could <\/span>harmonize <\/span>the <\/span>energy <\/span>and <\/span>rediscover <\/span>resources <\/span>to <\/span>apply <\/span>in <\/span>everyday <\/span>life.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Despite <\/span>the <\/span>success <\/span>of <\/span>integrating <\/span>these <\/span>two <\/span>techniques <\/span>and <\/span>the <\/span>positive <\/span>results <\/span>with <\/span>clients, <\/span>I <\/span>felt <\/span>that <\/span>something <\/span>was <\/span>still <\/span>missing. <\/span>There <\/span>was <\/span>room <\/span>for <\/span>improvement.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Freeing <\/span>a <\/span>person <\/span>from <\/span>a <\/span>block <\/span>or <\/span>a <\/span>deep-seated <\/span>belief <\/span>certainly <\/span>makes <\/span>them <\/span>freer, <\/span>in <\/span>a <\/span>way <\/span>that <\/span>is <\/span>hard <\/span>to <\/span>grasp <\/span>without <\/span>personal <\/span>experience. <\/span>But <\/span>once <\/span>free, <\/span>what <\/span>do <\/span>they <\/span>do? <\/span>I <\/span>think <\/span>of <\/span>an <\/span>analogy <\/span>with <\/span>sports <\/span>like <\/span>soccer, <\/span>basketball, <\/span>or <\/span>volleyball: <\/span>freeing <\/span>an <\/span>athlete <\/span>from <\/span>the <\/span>fear <\/span>of <\/span>the <\/span>ball <\/span>or <\/span>taking <\/span>a <\/span>penalty <\/span>shot <\/span>certainly <\/span>helps, <\/span>but <\/span>it <\/span>doesn\u2019t <\/span>teach <\/span>them <\/span>how <\/span>to <\/span>play <\/span>if <\/span>they <\/span>don\u2019t <\/span>already <\/span>know <\/span>how.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Coaching <\/span>could <\/span>help <\/span>with <\/span>this <\/span>next <\/span>step: <\/span>finding <\/span>strategies <\/span>to <\/span>fully <\/span>enjoy <\/span>the <\/span>newfound <\/span>freedom <\/span>gained <\/span>through <\/span>introspective <\/span>and <\/span>energy-based <\/span>techniques.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
I <\/span>decided <\/span>to <\/span>pursue <\/span>a <\/span>master\u2019s <\/span>course <\/span>in <\/span>coaching <\/span>with <\/span>the <\/span>HPM\u00ae <\/span>(Human <\/span>Potential <\/span>Modeling) <\/span>method <\/span>by <\/span>Daniele <\/span>Trevisani, <\/span>a <\/span>renowned <\/span>scholar <\/span>in <\/span>Italy <\/span>and <\/span>abroad <\/span>and <\/span>author <\/span>of <\/span>over <\/span>30 <\/span>books <\/span>on <\/span>coaching.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
This <\/span>method <\/span>is <\/span>particularly <\/span>effective <\/span>because, <\/span>among <\/span>other <\/span>features, <\/span>it <\/span>allows <\/span>the <\/span>division <\/span>of <\/span>work <\/span>areas <\/span>into <\/span>defined <\/span>sectors. <\/span>Through <\/span>this <\/span>approach, <\/span>it <\/span>becomes <\/span>relatively <\/span>easy <\/span>to <\/span>identify <\/span>areas <\/span>of <\/span>low <\/span>energy <\/span>that <\/span>need <\/span>to <\/span>be <\/span>addressed <\/span>to <\/span>enable <\/span>a <\/span>person <\/span>to <\/span>fully <\/span>access <\/span>their <\/span>true <\/span>potential.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
In <\/span>relation <\/span>to <\/span>this, <\/span>while <\/span>exploring <\/span>specific <\/span>applications <\/span>of <\/span>EFT, <\/span>I <\/span>came <\/span>across <\/span>TAI <\/span>(Inner <\/span>Alchemy <\/span>Techniques) <\/span>and, <\/span>thanks <\/span>to <\/span>Andrea <\/span>Fredi, <\/span>I <\/span>qualified <\/span>as <\/span>a <\/span>TAI <\/span>Master, <\/span>always <\/span>adhering <\/span>to <\/span>my <\/span>principle <\/span>of <\/span>testing <\/span>techniques <\/span>on <\/span>myself <\/span>before <\/span>using <\/span>them <\/span>with <\/span>others.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
TAI <\/span>allows <\/span>me <\/span>to <\/span>quickly <\/span>identify <\/span>the <\/span>cause <\/span>of <\/span>a <\/span>block <\/span>or <\/span>difficulty <\/span>and <\/span>dissolve <\/span>it <\/span>with <\/span>relative <\/span>ease, <\/span>often <\/span>without <\/span>even <\/span>needing <\/span>to <\/span>know <\/span>the <\/span>details. <\/span>Unlike <\/span>other <\/span>techniques, <\/span>TAI <\/span>can <\/span>be <\/span>applied <\/span>with <\/span>its <\/span>\u201ccommand <\/span>phrases\u201d\u2014direct <\/span>instructions <\/span>to <\/span>the <\/span>subconscious\u2014even <\/span>without <\/span>the <\/span>practitioner <\/span>knowing <\/span>the <\/span>specifics <\/span>of <\/span>the <\/span>scene <\/span>or <\/span>episode. <\/span>This <\/span>is <\/span>particularly <\/span>useful <\/span>when <\/span>the <\/span>experiences <\/span>are <\/span>sensitive, <\/span>and <\/span>the <\/span>client\u2019s <\/span>reluctance <\/span>or <\/span>pain <\/span>prevents <\/span>them <\/span>from <\/span>speaking <\/span>openly.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Additionally, <\/span>the <\/span>energy <\/span>release <\/span>enabled <\/span>by <\/span>TAI\u2014re-harmonizing <\/span>energy <\/span>trapped <\/span>in <\/span>space-time <\/span>capsules\u2014gives <\/span>clients <\/span>an <\/span>extra <\/span>boost <\/span>to <\/span>apply <\/span>the <\/span>strategies <\/span>identified <\/span>through <\/span>coaching <\/span>with <\/span>greater <\/span>strength.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
My <\/span>approach <\/span>can <\/span>be <\/span>outlined <\/span>as <\/span>follows:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n