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TAI to help a 6\u2011year\u2011old girl change her state of anger and sadness by visiting an unresolved grief<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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The mother contacts me because there are changes in the family\u2019s life and her 6\u2011year\u2011old daughter cannot adapt to the changes and the new rhythms they imply.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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\u201cShe wants nothing to have changed and says she does not want to go where she has to go with her mother, so she triggers anger or falls into deep sadness.
\nThere are no other options for her.
\nHer mother tells me that when she is in the new place she manages to find joy, and the little girl quickly says, in a sorry tone: \u2018a tiny bit of joy.\u2019\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

We both talk and I ask her what makes her angry. If she can tell me what she disagrees with. She mentions the situations of change, but I see that doing TAI directly on those situations is really too much for this little girl even though I see it helps her to be able to talk about them freely. I perceive that anger and sadness are so intertwined that it will be difficult to do TAI on one or the other.<\/p>\n

After a while she gives another example of something she absolutely hates that makes her angry. And then she is truly angry!<\/p>\n

It happens every time her brother calls her by a name other than her first name, and she really dislikes that.
\nI ask her if she can say how he calls her. She says the word:\u00a0poussinette<\/em>.
\nI tell her that it means \u201clittle chick girl\u201d, it isn\u2019t really mean.
\nShe answers that she doesn\u2019t like the tone in which he says it.<\/p>\n

\u201cAh! It\u2019s not the word you dislike, it\u2019s his intention.\u201d
\n\u201cWhat does it trigger in you when you hear him say that?\u201d
\n\u201cI feel like hitting him,\u201d she replies.
\n\u201cYes, that makes you very angry. Are you angry right now thinking about it?\u201d
\n\u201cYes,\u201d she says, and I can feel her anger.<\/p>\n

\u201cHow would you describe your anger? Does it have a shape, a colour, a taste, a sound, where is it inside you?\u201d
\nSpontaneously she says: \u201cIt is red and it is as big as the whole sky.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOkay, that\u2019s huge: as big as the whole sky!\u201d<\/p>\n

We place our hands on the belly, the first Dantian, and say:<\/p>\n

I take back my power to leave this anger, I release the energy stuck to this anger because it takes a lot of energy from me since it is as big as the whole sky.<\/em><\/p>\n

Then the second Dantian:<\/p>\n

I let go of all identification with the anger because I am angry but I am not the anger; I release all attachments to the anger and to my reactions regarding the anger.<\/em><\/p>\n

Third Dantian:<\/p>\n

I generate and send harmonic frequencies of reconciliation and kindness within me toward this anger.<\/em><\/p>\n

After a big yawn, I ask her whether the red anger from earlier has changed.<\/p>\n