TAI for the end of a relationship

Problem: Intense emotional activation and heartache after separating from her partner.
Intention: To find peace.

Method Explanation and Consent:

Miss E. agreed to proceed with TAI.

Initial Representation of Activation:

A scene from the breakup with her partner.

  • Sensory Observations: Visual representation with a physical sensation of cold.

Reactions Here and Now to the Representation:

  • Physical: Tight throat, feeling of constriction, and muscle pain on the left side of the chest.
  • Emotional: Anger, fear, and sadness.
  • Mental Thoughts: “I find his reaction disproportionate. It’s too much for something so minor. His attitude feels dismissive and cold.”
  • Activation Intensity: 8/10.

1st Round of TAI:

Before starting, Miss E. was guided to breathe deeply and repeat the mantra: “I am Origin.”

1st Dantian (lower abdomen):

  1. She placed her hands over her abdomen.
  2. Focusing on the scene, she repeated:
    • “I reclaim my power and release the blocked energy in this scene and everything it represents for me.”

2nd Dantian (heart):

  1. She moved her hands over her heart and breathed deeply.
  2. While thinking about the scene, she said:
    • “I release all identification and attachment to this scene and everything it represents for me.”

3rd Dantian (third eye):

  1. Placing two fingers between her eyebrows, she repeated:
    • “I generate order and coherence within me, here and now, in relation to this scene and everything it represents for me.”

Evolution of the Representation:

The scene began to evaporate, turning white with a crystalline sound filling the space.

  • Physical Reactions: The tightness in her throat decreased, and her heart area felt lighter.
  • Emotional Reactions: A sense of calm and reconciliation.
  • Mental Thoughts: “It’s not hard to see the positive in this situation; there’s no real drama—it’s all within my control.”
  • Activation Intensity: 5-3/10.

2nd Round of TAI:

Using the same process, the representation evolved into a white feather.

  • Physical Reactions: A sensation of gentleness.
  • Emotional Reactions: Complete calm.
  • Activation Intensity: 0-1/10.

Process Closure:

With hands crossed over her heart, she repeated:

  • “I align all my systems to my new awareness.”

Miss E. was instructed to repeat this phrase throughout the day and to stay hydrated.


Follow-up (The Next Day):

Miss E. reported:

  • “After the session, I repeated the mantra several times during the day, slept deeply, and since then, I’ve felt relaxed, zen, and I don’t even think about my heartache anymore. It’s gone! Thank you so much!”

Christelle

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